Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Events and Gatherings by Adam Bishop


The Aunts by Joyce Sutphen

I like it when they get together
and talk in voices that sound
like apple trees and grape vines,

and some of them wear hats
and go to Arizona in the winter,
and they all like to play cards.

They will always be the ones
who say “It is time to go now,”
even as we linger at the door,

or stand by the waiting cars, they
remember someone—an uncle we
never knew—and sigh, all

of them together, like wind
in the oak trees behind the farm
where they grew up—a place

I remember—especially
the hen house and the soft
clucking that filled the sunlit yard.
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Events and Gatherings by Adam Bishop

With the occasional get together
I reconnect with the old family
That I have known since I could remember
However, I do not know them at all
They seem mysterious and different
Even though they are related to me

I do not hate them, which is good I guess
In person, I enjoy their company
And they always bring me a gift or two
Other than that, though, they are just people
People that if I met in the market
I would instantly forget about them

Being separated might have caused this
Months in between every other meeting
Makes it difficult connecting with them

There was a time when we were all closer
Only blocks away, I could go see them
Talking and playing for hours on end
The big family events were the best
All my uncles, aunts, and little cousins
Gathered in one place, just to have some fun

Ten years ago, this happened every week
My eight year old self was having a blast
With a group I could call my family
This was not meant to last for us, sadly
Uncles and aunts were offered jobs elsewhere
And my little cousins grew up as well

Now we are just people to each other
But the memories do linger a bit
Just to remind me of what I once had

2 comments:

  1. I like this couplet:

    "My eight year old self was having a blast
    With a group I could call my family"

    because of the contrast it has with the rest of the poem, especially the line:

    "Other than that, though, they are just people." I liked how the poem went from kinda sad because of the loss of connection to your family you present, but then bring it back to the connections and memories you used to have with them.

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  2. I like this couplet,

    "People that if I met in the market
    I would instantly forget about them"

    I like how you are comparing you family to people in a market. It puts an image in you head.

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